{"id":3269,"date":"2012-04-10T17:39:56","date_gmt":"2012-04-10T17:39:56","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/seksologu.com\/index\/?p=3269"},"modified":"2012-04-10T17:39:56","modified_gmt":"2012-04-10T17:39:56","slug":"seks-per-here-te-pare-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/seksologu.com\/seks-per-here-te-pare-2\/","title":{"rendered":"SEKS P\u00cbR HER\u00cb T\u00cb PAR\u00cb"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>Pyetja \u00ebsht\u00eb me shum\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb shqet\u00ebsim p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb ata q\u00eb do t\u00eb provojn\u00eb interkurs\u00ebn seksuale p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb, ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht p\u00ebr vajzat. Edhe lexues e d\u00ebgjues t\u00eb tjer\u00eb m\u00eb kan\u00eb pyetur me shqet\u00ebsim p\u00ebr interkurs\u00ebn e par\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb problem kam folur dhe shkruar edhe m\u00eb par\u00eb<\/p>\n

Q\u00eb n\u00eb fillim, d\u00ebshiroj t\u00eb them, se nga\u00a0 pyetja jote nuk del e qart\u00eb n\u00eb se ju t\u00eb dy keni qen\u00eb seksualisht aktiv\u00eb duke kryer at\u00eb q\u00eb quhet extrakurs\u00eb (p\u00ebrk\u00ebdhelje trupore q\u00eb ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb \u00e7ojn\u00eb deri n\u00eb orgasm\u00eb, masturbim reciprok t\u00eb njeri-tjetrit, seks oral ose anal dhe tani pyetni n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb specifike p\u00ebr at\u00eb q\u00eb nuk e keni b\u00ebr\u00eb akoma, pra p\u00ebr interkurs\u00ebn vaginale?. Ka mund\u00ebsi q\u00eb ju t\u00eb mos keni b\u00ebr\u00eb asgj\u00eb prej k\u00ebtyre q\u00eb thash\u00eb m\u00eb sip\u00ebr.<\/p>\n

Duke qen\u00eb k\u00ebshtu, p\u00ebrgjigja do t\u00eb jet\u00eb m\u00eb e p\u00ebrgjithshme, dhe do t\u00eb p\u00ebrfshij\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha ato gj\u00ebra q\u00eb ju duhet t\u00eb dini p\u00ebr \u201cHer\u00ebn e Par\u00eb\u201d.<\/p>\n

Krijoni kushte q\u00eb t\u00eb ndjeheni mir\u00eb emocionalisht dhe fizikisht p\u00ebr at\u00eb dit\u00eb t\u00eb sh\u00ebnuar, t\u00eb cil\u00ebn nuk do ta harroni kurr\u00eb, ndon\u00ebse do t\u00eb b\u00ebni mij\u00ebra t\u00eb tjera.<\/p>\n

Vendi ku do t\u00eb kryeni marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien e par\u00eb seksuale duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb vend i sigurt\u00eb, ku nuk duhet t\u00eb keni frik\u00eb se u diktojn\u00eb dhe q\u00eb krijon t\u00eb gjitha kushtet q\u00eb ju t\u00eb jeni t\u00eb relaksuar kur t\u00eb kryeni\u00a0 marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien. Shkurt \u201chera e par\u00eb\u201d nuk duhet t\u00eb kryhet pas nj\u00eb gardhi, pas nj\u00eb shkalle, n\u00eb ndenj\u00ebsen e pasme t\u00eb makin\u00ebs ose kudo ku nuk jan\u00eb kushtet e p\u00ebrshtatshme.<\/p>\n

Le t\u00eb supozojm\u00eb q\u00eb ju t\u00eb dy do ta provoni her\u00ebn e par\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e nj\u00ebrit prej jush, ose n\u00eb nj\u00eb hotel n\u00eb nj\u00eb vend turistik, larg shqet\u00ebsimeve dhe tensioneve.<\/p>\n

Ambienti duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb t\u00ebr\u00ebsisht privat. Dyert t\u00eb jen\u00eb t\u00eb mbyllura, perdet t\u00eb ulura dhe sigurohuni se nuk do t\u00eb ket\u00eb nd\u00ebrprerje gjat\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnies seksuale. K\u00ebto kan\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi p\u00ebr ty, sepse vajzat e kan\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrqendrohen n\u00eb stimulimin seksual, kur nuk ndjehen t\u00eb sigurta.<\/p>\n

Me k\u00ebto pak rreshta d\u00ebshiroj t\u00eb pak\u00ebsoj habin\u00eb, tensionin dhe ankthin tuaj p\u00ebr \u201cher\u00ebn e par\u00eb\u201d. Pavar\u00ebsisht k\u00ebshillave q\u00eb keni marr\u00eb dhe p\u00ebrgatitjeve q\u00eb keni b\u00ebr\u00eb, si t\u00eb gjith\u00eb t\u00eb rinjt\u00eb, edhe ju do t\u00eb keni nj\u00eb ankth t\u00eb brendsh\u00ebm dhe nj\u00eb tension disi t\u00eb \u00e7uditsh\u00ebm.<\/p>\n

Bisedoni dhe synoni q\u00eb t\u00eb krijoni besimin tek njeri-tjetri. Sigurojeni djalin se do t\u2019ia falni moskryerjen mir\u00eb t\u00eb detyrave t\u00eb \u201cher\u00ebs s\u00eb par\u00eb\u201d Gj\u00ebrat do t\u00eb p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsohen me koh\u00eb. Asnjeri nga ju nuk duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb kritik p\u00ebr shokun, her\u00ebn e par\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Do t\u00eb b\u00ebni, ose jo banj\u00eb kjo varet nga ju. Por gjat\u00eb gjith\u00eb jet\u00ebs, duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebni kujdes q\u00eb t\u00eb dy t\u00eb b\u00ebni banj\u00eb para se t\u00eb b\u00ebni seks.<\/p>\n

\u00c7do gj\u00eb fillon mbar\u00eb kur do t\u00eb zhvishni njeri-tjetrin t\u00ebr\u00ebsisht. N\u00eb qoft\u00eb se ty nuk e ke t\u00eb leht\u00eb t\u00eb zhvishesh t\u00ebr\u00ebsisht, p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb ti nuk ke faj. Shoq\u00ebria dhe familja t\u00eb ka m\u00ebsuar t\u00eb jesh e ndrojtur dhe ta mbulosh trupin me tesha. Djali nuk duhet t\u00eb t\u00eb detyroj\u00eb t\u00eb zhvishesh kur ti e ke k\u00ebt\u00eb gj\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00eb. Kjo nuk b\u00ebhet duke shtypur butonin \u201chera e par\u00eb\u201d.\u00a0 Gjith\u00eb ato ndijime t\u00eb ndrojtjes, q\u00eb jan\u00eb kultivuar gradualisht p\u00ebr nj\u00eb periudh\u00eb t\u00eb themi nj\u00ebzet vje\u00e7are, ose m\u00eb shum\u00eb, nuk shuhen automatikisht menj\u00ebher\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb vendi t\u00eb themi se, sipas studimeve, edhe n\u00eb vendet e p\u00ebrparuara, shum\u00eb vajza nuk zhvishen her\u00ebn e par\u00eb. R\u00ebnd\u00ebsi ka q\u00eb djali t\u00eb kuptoj\u00eb e t\u00eb respektoj\u00eb ndjenjat e tua e t\u00eb mos sillet kritik me ty po qe se ti heziton. Kur ai respekton ndjenjat e tua,\u00a0 gjat\u00eb k\u00ebsaj kohe q\u00eb ju po p\u00ebrshtateni seksualisht me njeri-tjetrin, padyshim, q\u00eb dashuria, respekti dhe devocioni yt p\u00ebr t\u00eb, do t\u00eb rriten dhe do t\u00eb forcohen.<\/p>\n

Le ta themi edhe nj\u00eb her\u00eb, zhveshja \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb procedur\u00eb normale e her\u00ebs s\u00eb par\u00eb. Pas zhveshjes \u00ebsht\u00eb mir\u00eb q\u00eb ju t\u00eb filloni t\u00eb bisedoni lirisht, t\u00eb pyesni dhe t\u2019u p\u00ebrgjigjni pyetjeve t\u00eb njeri-tjetrit dhe t\u00eb kaloni pak koh\u00eb duke u k\u00ebnaqur me trupin e zhveshur t\u00eb njeri-tjetrit.<\/p>\n

Hera e par\u00eb, mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb p\u00ebr ju t\u00eb dy nj\u00eb eksperienc\u00eb romantike e k\u00ebnaqshme, sensuale, e g\u00ebzuar dhe pasionante, por mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb dhe e ngath\u00ebt, shqet\u00ebsuese, jo komforte, e pak\u00ebndshme, ose \u00e7do kombinim i k\u00ebtyre t\u00eb gjithave. Kjo varet kryesisht nga ju t\u00eb dy, nga dijenit\u00eb tuaja seksuale dhe nga p\u00ebrgatitja psiko-emocionale q\u00eb keni b\u00ebr\u00eb p\u00ebr her\u00ebn e par\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Kur do t\u00eb jeni gati p\u00ebr eksperienc\u00ebn e par\u00eb seksuale, duhet t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqeni ta b\u00ebni \u00e7do gj\u00eb drejt dhe n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb plot\u00eb. P\u00ebr t\u00eb pak\u00ebsuar \u00e7do shqet\u00ebsim, ose dh\u00ebmbje dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb shtuar k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb e interkurs\u00ebs s\u00eb par\u00eb, ju duhet t\u2019i jepni njeri-tjetrit koh\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb njohur trupat tuaja dhe t\u00eb eksitoni njeri-tjetrin seksualisht n\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb t\u00eb plot\u00eb, p\u00ebrpara se t\u00eb filloni penetrimin.<\/p>\n

Ti si shum\u00eb vajza t\u00eb tjera, je n\u00eb ankth p\u00ebr shqet\u00ebsimet, ose dh\u00ebmbjet e her\u00ebs s\u00eb par\u00eb. Por jo t\u00eb gjitha vajzat provojn\u00eb dh\u00ebmbje dhe shqet\u00ebsime. Jo t\u00eb gjitha vajzat i ndjejn\u00eb k\u00ebto shqet\u00ebsime me t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin intensitet. Njer\u00ebzit kan\u00eb nivele t\u00eb ndryshme t\u00eb toleranc\u00ebs p\u00ebr dh\u00ebmbjet dhe shqet\u00ebsimet.<\/p>\n

K\u00ebto q\u00eb do t\u2019u them tani do t\u2019u ndihmojn\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrgatiteni sa m\u00eb mir\u00eb p\u00ebr interkurs\u00ebn e par\u00eb:<\/p>\n

Me vete duhet t\u00eb keni lubrifikant ujor dhe kondome (edhe pse mund t\u00eb keni pir\u00eb pilula p\u00ebr kontrollin e lindjes). Nj\u00eb lib\u00ebr me ide p\u00ebr seksin dhe pozicionet seksuale \u00ebsht\u00eb mir\u00eb q\u00eb ta keni shikuar e studiuar s\u00eb bashku q\u00eb m\u00eb par\u00eb. Leximi i nj\u00eb librit erotik ose shikimi bashk\u00ebrisht i nj\u00eb video erotike at\u00eb nat\u00eb ose m\u00eb p\u00ebrpara, do t\u00eb ishte nj\u00eb ide e\u00a0 mir\u00eb. Mos harro t\u00eb vesh\u00ebs t\u00eb brendshme q\u00eb eksitojn\u00eb seksualisht.<\/p>\n

Paraloja seksuale duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb periudh\u00eb e gjat\u00eb, n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn djali yt duhet ta v\u00ebj\u00eb veten n\u00ebn kontroll, p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos b\u00ebr\u00eb ejakulacion t\u00eb parakoh\u00ebsh\u00ebm. Ti duhet t\u00eb stimulohesh dhe eksitohesh deri af\u00ebr orgasm\u00ebs. Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb momenti kur fillon interkursa seksuale. Gjat\u00eb interkurs\u00ebs ti duhet t\u00eb arrijsh n\u00eb\u00a0 orgasm\u00eb bashk\u00eb me djalin ose menj\u00ebher\u00eb pas teje edhe djali. Mos e konsideroni k\u00ebt\u00eb nj\u00eb gj\u00eb t\u00eb leht\u00eb. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb p\u00ebrvoj\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb dhe komplekse. Mos prisni q\u00eb t\u00eb jeni t\u00eb suksessh\u00ebm n\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb procesin, q\u00eb her\u00ebn e par\u00eb q\u00eb do ta provoni.<\/p>\n

Ti mund t\u00eb\u00a0 m\u00eb pyes\u00ebsh: \u201cCfar\u00eb probleme mund t\u00eb ket\u00eb dhe \u00e7far\u00eb nuk do t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb mir\u00eb?. Shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra mund t\u00eb ndodhin. Ju t\u00eb dy nuk dini akoma mir\u00eb si t\u00eb p\u00ebrdorni kondomin. Ju nuk dini sa eksitim t\u00eb duhet ty\u00a0 p\u00ebrpara se t\u00eb filloni interkurs\u00ebn. Djali i ri mund t\u00eb takoj\u00eb t\u00eb jet\u00eb nga ata \u201cme shkrepje t\u00eb shpejt\u00eb\u201d dhe mund t\u00eb \u201cprishet\u201d shum\u00eb m\u00eb shpejt nga sa e mendonit.<\/p>\n

Ka shum\u00eb gj\u00ebra q\u00eb mund t\u00eb ndodhin e q\u00eb mund t\u00eb t\u00eb pengojn\u00eb t\u00eb arrish orgasm\u00ebn n\u00eb interkurs\u00ebn e par\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Cilat jan\u00eb k\u00ebto gj\u00ebra?<\/p>\n

-Ti mund t\u00eb mos jesh eksituar mjaftuesh\u00ebm p\u00ebrpara se t\u00eb filloni\u00a0 interkurs\u00ebn .
\n– Ti mund t\u00eb ndjesh se je e ngusht\u00eb dhe ke dh\u00ebmbje kur fillon interkursa dhe nga dh\u00ebmbjet mund t\u00eb humbas\u00ebsh edhe at\u00eb eksitim q\u00eb\u00a0 pate.
\n– Kur djali do t\u00eb \u201cprishet\u201d parakohe, ai do ta nd\u00ebrpres\u00eb loj\u00ebn seksuale dhe eksitimin t\u00ebnd t\u00eb m\u00eb m\u00ebtejsh\u00ebm.<\/p>\n

E ritheksoj, mos u dekurajoni po qe se eksperienca e par\u00eb seksuale nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb perfekte.<\/strong> Pas \u00e7do p\u00ebrpjekjeje p\u00ebr aktivitet seksual, ju do t\u00eb m\u00ebsoni di\u00e7ka m\u00eb shum\u00eb dhe her\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr do ta beni loj\u00ebn m\u00eb mir\u00eb.\u00a0 Synoni ta b\u00ebni \u00e7do gj\u00eb drejt dhe komplet, p\u00ebrfshi interkurs\u00ebn dhe orgasm\u00ebn, por perfeksionin mund t\u00eb mos e arrini dot q\u00eb nat\u00ebn e par\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Le t\u00eb p\u00ebrshkruajm\u00eb tani interkurs\u00ebn e par\u00eb. K\u00ebto q\u00eb do t\u00eb them jan\u00eb gj\u00ebra t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebshme. Por ju t\u00eb dy keni t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn dhe obligimin t\u00eb jeni krijues dhe pak \u201caventurier\u00eb\u201d. Ju mund t\u00eb zgjidhni pozicionin q\u00eb u p\u00eblqen, un\u00eb do t\u00eb p\u00ebrshkruaj k\u00ebtu pozicionin \u201cmisionar\u201d q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00eb i zakonshmi.<\/p>\n

Ti do t\u00eb shrtihesh n\u00eb shpin\u00eb me gjunj\u00eb t\u00eb hapura, me putrat e k\u00ebmb\u00ebve t\u00eb vendosura plot\u00ebsisht n\u00eb dyshek dhe me thembrat af\u00ebr prapanicave t\u00eb tua. Djali do t\u00eb shtrihet djathtas teje, me dor\u00ebn e majt\u00eb n\u00ebn qaf\u00ebn t\u00ebnde. Djali ngadal\u00eb p\u00ebrk\u00ebdhel, b\u00ebn masazh dhe stimulon t\u00eb gjitha zonat erotike t\u00eb trupit t\u00ebnd. Ai puth buz\u00ebt dhe gjinjt\u00eb e tu. Me duart dhe gishtat e tij eksploron dhe stimulon gjith\u00eb trupin t\u00ebnd, an\u00ebn e br\u00ebnd\u00ebshme t\u00eb kofsh\u00ebve, buz\u00ebt dhe hyrjen e vagin\u00ebs dhe s\u00eb fundi klitorin. Kjo loj\u00eb nuk duhet t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb proces mekanik e rutin\u00eb. Variacionet jan\u00eb me shum\u00eb vler\u00eb. D\u00ebshirat dhe nevojat e vajzave e grave jan\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshme. Mos e n\u00ebnvleft\u00ebsoni r\u00ebnd\u00ebsin\u00eb dhe dometh\u00ebnien e k\u00ebsaj periudhe eksitimi.<\/strong><\/em>\u00a0 Q\u00ebllimi \u00ebsht\u00eb q\u00eb djali t\u00eb t\u00eb eksitoj\u00eb deri sa ti t\u00eb jesh plot\u00ebsisht gati p\u00ebr interkurs\u00eb. Varet nga d\u00ebshira q\u00eb keni ju t\u00eb dy, por eksitimi mund t\u00eb rritet po qe se ju n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb moment kaloni n\u00eb stimulimin seksual oral reciprok, si hapi final p\u00ebrpara shtyrjes s\u00eb penisit n\u00eb vagin\u00eb. Midis gj\u00ebrave t\u00eb tjera kjo do t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb q\u00eb stimulimi seksual total t\u00eb arrij\u00eb kulmin duke i \u00e7uar t\u00eb gjitha shqisat tuaja n\u00eb maksimumin e receptivitetit t\u00eb tyre. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb moment, \u00e7do qeliz\u00eb nervore e seicilit nga ju, do t\u00eb d\u00ebrgoj\u00eb e do t\u00eb mar\u00eb impulse n\u00eb kapacitetin e saj m\u00eb ekstrem.<\/p>\n

Kur ti do t\u00eb mendosh se je e eksituar sa duhet, jepi sh\u00ebnj\u00eb atij q\u00eb t\u00eb filloj\u00eb interkurs\u00ebn. Her\u00ebn e par\u00eb ti mund t\u00eb mos dish kur ta njoftosh djalin p\u00ebr penetrim. Ti nuk do t\u00eb jesh e sigurt\u00eb p\u00ebr koh\u00ebn e duhur. M\u00eb von\u00eb, p\u00ebrmes experiences, do t\u00eb m\u00ebsosh se kur duhet t\u00eb njoftosh q\u00eb je gati p\u00ebr penetrim. Shum\u00eb djem kur jan\u00eb teper t\u00eb eksituar e fillojn\u00eb penetrimin para kohe. Mundohu t\u00eb mos e b\u00ebj\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb gabim edhe djali yt.<\/p>\n

Kur ti do t\u00eb sinjalizosh, djali, do t\u00eb l\u00ebviz\u00eb dhe do t\u00eb shkoj\u00eb posht\u00eb n\u00eb drejtim t\u00eb fundit t\u00eb krevatit. K\u00ebmb\u00ebt e tij \u00ebsht\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u2019i mb\u00ebshtes\u00eb tek fundi i krevatit p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndihmuar l\u00ebvizjet e trupit t\u00eb tij. Kur krevati \u00ebsht\u00eb pa fund, k\u00ebshillohet q\u00eb t\u00eb ndroni pozicionin, ta vini kok\u00ebn nga k\u00ebmb\u00ebt dhe k\u00ebmb\u00ebt e burrit t\u00eb mb\u00ebshteten tek koka e krevatit. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb moment ti do t\u2019i hap\u00ebsh k\u00ebmb\u00ebt dhe gjunj\u00ebt gjer\u00eb. Ai do t\u00eb l\u00ebviz\u00eb trupin midis gjunj\u00ebve t\u00eb tua dhe mbi trupin t\u00ebnd. Pesha e trupit t\u00eb tij duhet mos rendoj\u00eb mbi ty por mbi brylat dhe gjunj\u00ebt e tij. Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb pozicioni m\u00eb konfort p\u00ebr t\u00eb dy sepse mund t\u00eb l\u00ebvizni lirsh\u00ebm sipas d\u00ebshir\u00ebs. Duhet t\u00eb themi se n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb moment niveli i eksitimit t\u00ebnd mund t\u00eb bjer\u00eb pak. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka q\u00eb pritet, prandaj nuk duhet t\u00eb shqet\u00ebsoheni.<\/p>\n

N\u00eb interkurs\u00ebn e par\u00eb duhet shum\u00eb lubrifikant. P\u00ebrdorni lubrifikant\u00eb artificial\u00eb dhe djali t\u00eb penetroj\u00eb me shum\u00eb kujdes. Penetro pak dhe ndalo p\u00ebr vet\u00ebkontroll. Komunikimi me njeri-tjetrin duhet t\u00eb vazhdoj\u00eb. N\u00eb qoft\u00eb se ti ndjen dh\u00ebmbje n\u00eb penetrimin e par\u00eb, eksitimi seksual do t\u00eb t\u00eb bjer\u00eb edhe m\u00eb posht\u00eb.<\/p>\n

Shqet\u00ebsimi dhe ankthi p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb eksperienc\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb mund ta ulin shum\u00eb eksitimin t\u00ebnd.\u00a0 Pas nj\u00eb pushimi t\u00eb vog\u00ebl, burri duhet me kujdes ta leviz\u00eb penisin p\u00ebrpara n\u00eb vagin\u00eb. Kujdes! jo shum\u00eb\u00a0 p\u00ebrpara. Pusho p\u00ebrs\u00ebri nj\u00eb moment. K\u00ebt\u00eb ai duhet ta b\u00ebj\u00eb p\u00ebr ta v\u00ebn\u00eb veten n\u00ebn kontroll e t\u00eb mos \u201cprishet\u201d para kohe. Pas k\u00ebtij momenti ai duhet t\u00eb filloj\u00eb l\u00ebvizjet e penisit para mbrapa n\u00eb vagin\u00eb. Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb momenti kur burri duhet t\u00eb ket\u00eb vullnet t\u00eb hekurt q\u00eb t\u00eb ruaj\u00eb kontrollin e vetes, nd\u00ebrsa ti duhet ta mbledh\u00ebsh m\u00ebndjen dhe t\u00eb lirohesh nga emocionet.\u00a0 Tani \u00ebsht\u00eb koha t\u2019i thuash vetes e g\u00ebzuar: \u201dja, kjo ishte\u201d, \u201c kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb hera ime e par\u00eb\u201d e plot t\u00eb tjera si k\u00ebto. Ti duhet ta p\u00ebrq\u00ebndrosh v\u00ebm\u00ebndjen tek klitori, vagina dhe n\u00eb ritmin me t\u00eb cilin l\u00ebviz penisi para mbrapa n\u00eb vagin\u00ebn t\u00ebnde. Mos u shqet\u00ebso p\u00ebr burrin. Ai le t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb kujdes vet\u00eb p\u00ebr veten e tij. Kjo nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb aspak se ti je egoiste.<\/p>\n

Burri, her\u00eb pas here p\u00ebr intervale t\u00eb shkurtra duhet t\u00eb ndaloj\u00eb l\u00ebvizjet, p\u00ebr ta v\u00ebn\u00eb veten n\u00ebn kontroll, nd\u00ebrsa ti duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebsh kujdes q\u00eb t\u00eb arrish eksitimin q\u00eb kishe para penetrimit dhe mund\u00ebsisht t\u00eb arrish orgazm\u00ebn. Po qe se ti arrin n\u00eb orgasm\u00eb edhe djali do ta provoj\u00eb at\u00eb bashk\u00eb me ti.\u00a0 T\u00eb arrish k\u00ebt\u00eb sukses q\u00eb nat\u00ebn e par\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb v\u00ebrtet nj\u00eb mrekulli e rrall\u00eb.<\/p>\n

N\u00eb qoft\u00eb se ti nuk arrin orgasm\u00ebn (nga 10 vajza, 9 nuk e arrijn\u00eb her\u00ebn e par\u00eb), burri do ta arrij\u00eb at\u00eb pa ty. Shpesh, n\u00eb interkurs\u00ebn e pare, burri mund ta arrij\u00eb orgasm\u00ebn menj\u00ebher\u00eb sa hyn n\u00eb vagin\u00eb, ose shum\u00eb shpejt pas k\u00ebsaj, madje ai mund t\u00eb \u201cprishet\u201d q\u00eb gjat\u00eb paraloj\u00ebs, kur \u00ebsht\u00eb duke t\u00eb eksituar ty, ende pa penetruar. Kjo u ndodh 45 p\u00ebrqind t\u00eb djemve. Mos u shqet\u00ebsoni n\u00eb se kjo ndodh edhe me ju. Duhet koh\u00eb dhe eksperienc\u00eb q\u00eb gj\u00ebrat t\u00eb p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsohen. Q\u00ebllimi p\u00ebr ju t\u00eb dy \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb provoni orgasm\u00ebn.<\/p>\n

Ti duhet t\u00eb dish se sipas statistikave 37p\u00ebrqind e djemve kan\u00eb nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr m\u00eb tep\u00ebr stimulim prej vajz\u00ebs, q\u00eb tani \u00ebsht\u00eb eksituar plot\u00ebsisht p\u00ebr veten e saj. Ky stimulim, \u00ebsht\u00eb i domosdosh\u00ebm\u00a0 q\u00eb djali t\u00eb p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsoj\u00eb ereksionin dhe gadishm\u00ebrin\u00eb e tij p\u00ebr interkurs\u00eb. N\u00eb qoft\u00eb se kjo ndodh me djalin t\u00ebnd her\u00ebn e par\u00eb, kjo nuk do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se djali yt \u00ebsht\u00eb i pandjesh\u00ebm seksualisht. Kjo do t\u00eb thot\u00eb se n\u00eb p\u00ebrq\u00ebndrimin e tij altruistik dhe aspak egoist, duke t\u00eb stimuluar ty p\u00ebr nj\u00eb koh\u00eb shum\u00eb t\u00eb gjat\u00eb, eksitimi i tij ka p\u00ebsuar nj\u00eb r\u00ebnie.<\/p>\n

Suksesi i plot\u00eb seksual her\u00ebn e par\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb pothuaj i pamundur. Mos u m\u00ebrzitni p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb. N\u00eb interkurs\u00ebn e par\u00eb, n\u00ebnt\u00ebdhjet\u00eb p\u00ebrqind e burrave e arrijn\u00eb orgasm\u00ebn, nd\u00ebrsa grat\u00eb nuk e arrijn\u00eb dot. Kjo ndodh. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb e v\u00ebrteta. N\u00eb qoft\u00eb se kjo t\u00eb ndodh, mos u ndje fajtore e as mos mendo se je e pandjeshme seksualisht, ose ke vepruar gabim. Kwshtu \u00ebsht\u00eb fiziologjia. Evolucioni, po t\u00eb duash thuaj Zoti ose \u201cKrijuesi\u201d, edhe pse \u00ebsht\u00eb shum\u00eb efektiv, perfeksion nuk ka. N\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast edhe djali nuk duhet t\u00eb mendoj\u00eb se \u00ebsht\u00eb partner i pap\u00ebrshtatsh\u00ebm. Ai \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb djal\u00eb i ri e normal. Kjo ndodh sepse trupat tuaj k\u00ebshtu jan\u00eb \u201ckurdisur\u201d dhe duhet eksperienc\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb kordinuar n\u00eb koh\u00eb, procesin fiziologjik kompleks t\u00eb orgasm\u00ebs midis dy njerzve.<\/p>\n

Supozoni se ju t\u00eb dy nuk dini t\u00eb notoni. Ju nuk keni qen\u00eb asnj\u00eb dit\u00eb n\u00eb det ose n\u00eb pishin\u00eb. Lexuat nj\u00eb lib\u00ebr p\u00ebr notin dhe p\u00ebr \u201cnotimin sinkronik\u201d. Nj\u00eb m\u00ebsues noti u dha instruksione me goj\u00eb si ta b\u00ebni at\u00eb mrekulli artistike n\u00eb uj\u00eb. A do t\u00eb mjaftonte kjo q\u00eb ju t\u00eb hidheni me nj\u00eb her\u00eb n\u00eb uj\u00eb dhe t\u00eb filloni t\u00eb notoni e t\u00eb sinkronizoheni q\u00eb her\u00ebn e par\u00eb?. Natyrisht jo. Ju do t\u00eb shkoni n\u00eb fund. Ju duhet t\u00eb m\u00ebsoni si t\u00eb notoni gradualisht. Ju do t\u00eb fundoseni disa her\u00eb p\u00ebrpara se t\u00eb m\u00ebsoni t\u00eb notoni mir\u00eb. K\u00ebrkon koh\u00eb q\u00eb t\u2019i vini n\u00eb praktik\u00eb instruksionet q\u00eb keni marr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb notuar, por n\u00eb se keni marr\u00eb instruktime dhe i zbatoni ato, p\u00ebrparimi, pa dyshim, do t\u00eb b\u00ebhet m\u00eb i shpejt\u00eb<\/p>\n

K\u00ebrkon koh\u00eb dhe st\u00ebrvitje p\u00ebr ta v\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00eb informacionin q\u00eb keni mar\u00eb p\u00ebrpara. Shumica e t\u00eb rinjve q\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrojn\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsin\u00eb seksuale, gabimisht, mendojn\u00eb se gjith\u00e7ka q\u00eb ata kan\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb ken\u00eb r\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb dashuri me njeri-tjetrin, dhe t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb interkurs\u00eb. Ata mendojn\u00eb se automatikisht do t\u00eb gj\u00ebnden n\u00eb \u201cparajs\u00ebn e n\u00ebnt\u00eb\u201d t\u00eb ekstaz\u00ebs seksuale.\u00a0 Ska gj\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb gabuar se kjo. Gjat\u00eb jet\u00ebs ju do t\u00eb shkoni n\u00eb \u201cparajs\u00ebn e n\u00ebnt\u00eb\u201d t\u00eb ekstaz\u00ebs seksuale qindra e qindra her\u00eb, por kjo nuk do t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb rast\u00ebsisht. Kjo do t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb si rezultat i planifikimit t\u00eb saj t\u00eb m\u00ebncur, i iniciativ\u00ebs, i bashk\u00ebpunimit, i mir\u00ebkuptimit, i praktik\u00ebs, i dashuris\u00eb dhe t\u00eb gjitha k\u00ebto t\u00eb kombinuara me eksperienc\u00ebn q\u00eb do t\u00eb fitoni.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Mos u dekurajoni po qe se interkursa e par\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb krejt\u00ebsisht e suksesshme. Mos u m\u00ebrzitni nga kjo. \u00cbsht\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb t\u00eb qeshni me \u201cbudallall\u00ebqet \u201c tuaja. \u00c7do her\u00eb q\u00eb do t\u00eb b\u00ebni \u201cbudallall\u00ebqe \u201c dhe ju do t\u00eb b\u00ebni shum\u00eb t\u00eb tilla gjat\u00eb viteve, duhet vet\u00ebm t\u00eb qeshni dhe t\u00eb thoni: \u201cn\u00eb rregull, ne b\u00ebm\u00eb budallall\u00ebqe sonte, por ne m\u00ebsuam di\u00e7ka t\u00eb re dhe her\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr do ta b\u00ebjm\u00eb m\u00eb mir\u00eb\u201d. Edhe gjat\u00eb interkurs\u00ebs s\u00eb pare ju mund t\u00eb m\u00ebsoni shum\u00eb edhe pse ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb jo plot\u00ebsisht e suksesshme.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Pyetja \u00ebsht\u00eb me shum\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi dhe \u00ebsht\u00eb shqet\u00ebsim p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb ata q\u00eb do t\u00eb provojn\u00eb interkurs\u00ebn seksuale p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb, ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht p\u00ebr vajzat. Edhe lexues e d\u00ebgjues t\u00eb tjer\u00eb m\u00eb kan\u00eb pyetur me shqet\u00ebsim p\u00ebr interkurs\u00ebn e par\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb problem kam folur dhe shkruar edhe m\u00eb par\u00eb Q\u00eb n\u00eb fillim, d\u00ebshiroj […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[11,12,24],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/seksologu.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3269"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/seksologu.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/seksologu.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/seksologu.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/seksologu.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3269"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/seksologu.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3269\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/seksologu.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3269"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/seksologu.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3269"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/seksologu.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3269"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}