{"id":3754,"date":"2013-01-14T17:29:37","date_gmt":"2013-01-14T17:29:37","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/seksologu.com\/index\/?p=3754"},"modified":"2013-01-14T17:29:37","modified_gmt":"2013-01-14T17:29:37","slug":"per-te-kercyer-tango-nuk-mjaftojne-dy-veta","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/seksologu.com\/per-te-kercyer-tango-nuk-mjaftojne-dy-veta\/","title":{"rendered":"P\u00cbR T\u00cb K\u00cbRCYER TANGO NUK MJAFTOJN\u00cb DY VETA"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/seksologu.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/tango-3-1.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft  wp-image-3755\" style=\"margin: 4px;\" title=\"tango\" src=\"http:\/\/www.asel.co\/seksologu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/01\/tango-3-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" \/><\/a>Pyetje :\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0<\/strong><br \/>\nPara pak koh\u00ebsh me dashnoren time b\u00ebm\u00eb seks p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb. Ajo u gjakos pak, por edhe pse pati pak dhimbje m\u00eb tha se i p\u00eblqeu kjo eksperienc\u00eb. Un\u00eb nuk ndjeva ndonj\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi t\u00eb madhe. E kisha p\u00ebrfytyruar her\u00ebn e par\u00eb si di\u00e7ka t\u00eb mrekullueshme, por vagina e saj m\u2019u duk e l\u00ebshuar dhe nuk e ndjeva shum\u00eb presionin e saj. Un\u00eb e dija q\u00eb virgj\u00ebreshat duhet ta ken\u00eb vagin\u00ebn t\u00eb shtr\u00ebnguar, ndaj dhe seksi me to \u00ebsht\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi m\u00eb e madhe. Jam i frustruar dhe e g\u00ebnjeva kur i thash\u00eb se edhe mua m\u00eb p\u00eblqeu kjo q\u00eb b\u00ebm\u00eb.<br \/>\nPyetja ime \u00ebsht\u00eb: A mendoni se kjo ndodhi, nga q\u00eb ajo nuk diti t\u00eb m\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00eb mua?<br \/>\nT\u00eb lutem m\u00eb ndihmo t\u00eb kuptoj di\u00e7ka m\u00eb shum\u00eb.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong>P\u00ebrgjigje<\/strong>:<br \/>\nO djal\u00eb i pak\u00ebnaqur,<br \/>\nJam i bindur se e ke d\u00ebgjuar th\u00ebnien: P\u00ebr t\u00eb k\u00ebrcyer tango duhen dy veta, madje, k\u00ebt\u00eb th\u00ebnie e p\u00ebrdorin shum\u00eb politikan\u00ebt tek ne. P\u00ebr mua kjo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e mjaftueshme sepse p\u00ebr t\u00eb k\u00ebrcyer tango ve\u00e7 dy vetave duhet edhe te kesh m\u00ebsuar t\u00eb k\u00ebrcesh. Ti mund t\u00eb q\u00ebndrosh n\u00eb maj\u00eb t\u00eb gishtave dhe\u00a0 t\u00eb k\u00ebrcesh,\u00a0 por duhet t\u00eb dish se shum\u00eb pak gj\u00ebra n\u00eb jete jan\u00eb perfekte q\u00eb n\u00eb prov\u00ebn e par\u00eb! K\u00ebshtu \u00ebsht\u00eb me seksin. Q\u00eb t\u00eb ndjesh k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi duhen dije dhe p\u00ebrpjekje.<br \/>\nShumica e njer\u00ebzve presin shum\u00eb nga p\u00ebrvoja e par\u00eb seksuale. Ata provojn\u00eb shpresa, ankthe, k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi dhe frik\u00eb.\u00a0 P\u00ebr disa, ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi q\u00eb ta gjejn\u00eb vajz\u00ebn virgj\u00ebresh\u00eb. Shum\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00eb, ashtu si ti, shkojn\u00eb n\u00eb her\u00ebn e par\u00eb me ngarkes\u00eb psiko-emocionale t\u00eb madhe. Shpesh, ky presioni psiko-emocional \u00ebsht\u00eb aq i madh, sa i b\u00ebn shum\u00eb \u201cher\u00eb t\u00eb para\u201d, fatkeq\u00ebsisht, t\u00eb pak\u00ebnaqshme. Kjo ndodhi edhe me ty. Mos u shqet\u00ebso shum\u00eb, ashtu si me dancimin, her\u00ebt e tjera\u00a0\u00a0 do t\u00eb k\u00ebrceni m\u00eb mir\u00eb. Ju do t\u00eb fitoni eksperienc\u00eb, do t\u00eb dini t\u00eb\u00a0 komunikoni m\u00eb mir\u00eb dhe do t\u00eb keni b\u00ebr\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb praktik\u00eb!<br \/>\n\u00c7far\u00eb prisje ti nga interkursa e par\u00eb seksuale?<br \/>\nShum\u00eb faktor\u00eb mund t\u00eb ken\u00eb ndikuar n\u00eb pritjet e tua. Mediat, shum\u00eb filma dhe pjes\u00eb muzikore, e paraqesin her\u00ebn e par\u00eb n\u00eb skena artistike me artist\u00eb bukurosh\u00eb,\u00a0 sensual\u00eb dhe t\u00eb nxeht\u00eb. E gjitha kjo shoq\u00ebrohet me muzik\u00eb perfekte, me drita dhe magji. Por n\u00eb realitet, seksi mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb edhe mundim, edhe i keq, edhe jo komfort dhe mbi t\u00eb gjitha, t\u00eb mos e ket\u00eb at\u00eb kulm k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsie marramend\u00ebs, hipnotik, e t\u00eb mrekulluesh\u00ebm, q\u00eb ju i shikoni n\u00eb filma. Ky zhg\u00ebnjim nga seksi n\u00eb filma n\u00eb seksin n\u00eb realitet, duket ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht m\u00eb qart\u00eb\u00a0 n\u00eb prov\u00ebn e par\u00eb.<br \/>\nLidhur me \u201cvagin\u00ebn e shtr\u00ebnguar, apo t\u00eb liruar\u201d, n\u00eb media b\u00ebhet zallahi e madhe. Mediat i portretizojn\u00eb t\u00eb gjitha femrat e virgj\u00ebra, sikur t\u00eb ken\u00eb vagina t\u00eb shtr\u00ebnguara. P\u00ebr deri sa grat\u00eb jan\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshme edhe ngusht\u00ebsia e vagin\u00ebs, ose \u201cshtr\u00ebngimi\u201d vaginal ndryshon. Kur nj\u00eb grua \u00ebsht\u00eb e eksituar seksualisht, vagina e saj relaksohet, q\u00eb t\u00eb akomodoj\u00eb brenda vetes\u00a0 penisin, ose nj\u00eb\u00a0 objekt tjet\u00ebr q\u00eb p\u00ebrdoret p\u00ebr k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi seksuale. N\u00eb qoft\u00eb se ti vendos gishtin t\u00ebnd brenda vagin\u00ebs s\u00eb vajz\u00ebs dhe i thua asaj t\u00eb shtr\u00ebngohet, ka mund\u00ebsi t\u00eb ndjesh muskujt e saj vaginal\u00eb q\u00eb shtr\u00ebngohen. Por, kur ti je m\u00ebsuar t\u00eb masturbosh me duart e tua, t\u2019i mund t\u00eb pres\u00ebsh q\u00eb t\u00eb ndjesh po at\u00eb presion t\u00eb fort\u00eb, sa edhe\u00a0 nga duart e tua. Duhet t\u00eb dish, se shum\u00eb pak vagina e kan\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb aft\u00ebsi dhe jan\u00eb t\u00eb zonjat t\u00eb shtr\u00ebngohen si duart. Po qe se kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb arsye, ti duhet t\u00eb m\u00ebsohesh t\u00eb masturbosh duke e mbajtur dor\u00ebn pak m\u00eb t\u00eb lir\u00eb. P\u00ebrpiqu t\u00eb p\u00ebrdor\u00ebsh pak lubrifikant ujor kur masturbon. Duke ndryshuar m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn t\u00ebnde\u00a0 t\u00eb masturbimit, do t\u00eb m\u00ebsohesh t\u2019i p\u00ebrgjigjesh\u00a0 m\u00eb mir\u00eb seksualisht shtr\u00ebngimit t\u00eb penisit t\u00ebnd n\u00eb vagin\u00eb.\u00a0 Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00eb e mir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb rritur shanset e tua p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndjer\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi nga seksi.<br \/>\nKur b\u00ebni seks p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb\u00a0 me nj\u00eb partnere t\u00eb re, qoft\u00eb ajo partnerja juaj e par\u00eb, ose nj\u00eb nga t\u00eb\u00a0 radh\u00ebs, duhet t\u00eb dini, se hera e par\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb sfiduese. Mos e harroni: \u201chera e par\u00eb me \u00e7do partnere \u00ebsht\u00eb sfiduese\u201d.<br \/>\nAjo q\u00eb duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebni n\u00eb her\u00ebn e par\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqeni t\u00eb kuptoni:<br \/>\n\u2022\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0\u00c7far\u00eb t\u00eb eksiton ty seksualisht?<br \/>\n\u2022\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0\u00c7far\u00eb t\u00eb p\u00eblqen ty?<br \/>\n\u2022\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0\u00c7far\u00eb lloj seksi d\u00ebshiron?<br \/>\n\u2022\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0\u00c7far\u00eb nuk t\u00eb p\u00eblqen dhe t\u00eb b\u00ebn t\u00eb ndjesh dh\u00ebmbje?<br \/>\nP\u00ebr t\u2019iu p\u00ebrgjigjur k\u00ebtyre pyetjeve, do t\u2019u ndihmoj\u00eb\u00a0 masturbimi, eksperienca q\u00eb do t\u00eb fitoni dhe kuptimi m\u00eb i mir\u00eb i preferencave dhe kufizimeve tuaja seksuale. Kur ti t\u00eb kesh kuptuar se cili \u00ebsht\u00eb seksi m\u00eb i mir\u00eb p\u00ebr ty, k\u00ebt\u00eb thuaja dhe partneres t\u00ebnde.<br \/>\nQ\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebhesh dashnor i mir\u00eb, duhet koh\u00eb, besim, praktik\u00eb, durim dhe komunikim. Orgasmat dhe k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsia seksuale jan\u00eb sa fizike aq dhe emocionale. Seksualiteti dhe intimiteti, jan\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb se\u00a0 vet\u00ebm gjimnastik\u00eb. Rol me r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi luan besueshm\u00ebria n\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb b\u00ebni dhe t\u00eb jeni vetia juaj.\u00a0 T\u2019i thuash dikujt se ti t\u00eb p\u00eblqen seksi kur n\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb nuk e p\u00eblqen, kjo nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb mir\u00eb p\u00ebr partnerin tuaj seksual. Duhet t\u00eb dish, se kur ti mendon q\u00eb si partner seksual,\u00a0 po b\u00ebn nj\u00eb pun\u00eb t\u00eb mrekullueshme, ti b\u00ebn nj\u00eb gabim t\u00eb madh. Kjo t\u00eb pengon t\u00eb b\u00ebsh p\u00ebrpjekje q\u00eb ta ndryshosh, ose t\u00eb p\u00ebrpiqesh ta p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsosh performanc\u00ebn t\u00ebnde seksuale, q\u00eb ajo t\u2019i p\u00ebrshtatet partnerit.\u00a0 Ju duhet t\u00eb ushqeni reciprokisht nj\u00ebri tjetrin me ide e sjellje, sepse kjo ndihmon formimin tuaj t\u00eb drejt\u00eb dhe nxit p\u00ebr p\u00ebrmir\u00ebsime t\u00eb vazhdueshme t\u00eb jet\u00ebs tuaj seksuale dhe t\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnieve tuaja.<br \/>\nMerr frym\u00eb thell\u00eb dhe qet\u00ebsohu p\u00ebr nj\u00eb moment. Fito besimin tek vetia. Qart\u00ebsohu p\u00ebr ato q\u00eb d\u00ebshiron t\u00eb pres\u00ebsh dhe p\u00ebr k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsit\u00eb\u00a0 q\u00eb k\u00ebrkon t\u00eb arrish. Komuniko me\u00a0 partneren dhe\u00a0 sigurohu se dancin\u00a0 tjet\u00ebr seksual, q\u00eb do ta k\u00ebrceni bashk\u00ebrisht, do ta k\u00ebrceni m\u00eb mir\u00eb.!.<br \/>\nPa\u00e7 fat e sh\u00ebndet<br \/>\nDoktori<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Pyetje :\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0 Para pak koh\u00ebsh me dashnoren time b\u00ebm\u00eb seks p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb. Ajo u gjakos pak, por edhe pse pati pak dhimbje m\u00eb tha se i p\u00eblqeu kjo eksperienc\u00eb. Un\u00eb nuk ndjeva ndonj\u00eb k\u00ebnaq\u00ebsi t\u00eb madhe. E kisha p\u00ebrfytyruar her\u00ebn e par\u00eb si di\u00e7ka t\u00eb mrekullueshme, por vagina e saj m\u2019u duk [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[11,13,15],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/seksologu.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3754"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/seksologu.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/seksologu.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/seksologu.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/seksologu.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3754"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/seksologu.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3754\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/seksologu.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3754"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/seksologu.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3754"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/seksologu.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3754"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}