{"id":95,"date":"2015-05-26T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2015-05-26T00:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/theitforum.com\/sex\/?p=95"},"modified":"2015-05-26T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"2015-05-26T00:00:00","slug":"a-jane-ndjenjat-e-mia-lesbiane-vetem-nje-faze-qe-do-te-kaloje","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/seksologu.com\/a-jane-ndjenjat-e-mia-lesbiane-vetem-nje-faze-qe-do-te-kaloje\/","title":{"rendered":"A jan&#235; ndjenjat e mia lesbiane, vet&#235;m, nj&#235; \u201cfaz&#235;\u201d q&#235; do t&#235; kaloj&#235;?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/seksologu.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/09\/lesbian-3-1.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignleft  wp-image-3480\" style=\"margin: 4px;\" title=\"lesbian\" src=\"http:\/\/www.asel.co\/seksologu\/wp-content\/uploads\/2009\/09\/lesbian-3-150x150.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"191\" height=\"191\" \/><\/a>Pyetje:<br \/>\n<\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: justify;\"><em>Jam nj\u00eb grua tridhjet\u00eb vje\u00e7e dhe kam nj\u00eb pyetje p\u00ebr seksualitetin tim.<br \/>\nDeri tani kam pasur marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale vet\u00ebm me meshkuj, por koh\u00ebt? e fundit kam filluar t\u00eb fantazoj p\u00ebr marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale me gra. Aktualisht kam nj\u00eb djal\u00eb q\u00eb e dua shum\u00eb, por fatkeq\u00ebsisht, ai nuk do t\u2019i kuptoj\u00eb ndjenjat e mia.<br \/>\nA \u00ebsht\u00eb tradhti t\u00eb veprosh sipas ndjenjave q\u00eb un\u00eb kam?<br \/>\nDo t\u00eb ishte p\u00ebr mua nj\u00eb mrekulli, n\u00eb qoft\u00eb se e gjitha kjo q\u00eb po ndjej tani, do t\u00eb ishte vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb faz\u00eb dhe m\u00eb pas nuk do t\u00eb kem m\u00eb ndjenja t\u00eb tilla.<br \/>\nT\u00eb lutem doktor ndonj\u00eb k\u00ebshill\u00eb.<br \/>\n<\/em><br \/>\n<strong>P\u00ebrgjigje:<\/strong><br \/>\nNj\u00eb pyetje shum\u00eb interesante, q\u00eb m\u00eb b\u00ebhet p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb&#8230;<!--more--><br \/>\nNuk mund t\u00eb them, n\u00eb se fantazit\u00eb e tua lidhur me marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale me nj\u00eb grua, jan\u00eb vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb \u201cfaz\u00eb\u201d q\u00eb ju mund ta kaloni, ose jan\u00eb zgjim i ndonj\u00eb? aspekti? t\u00eb panjohur dhe? t\u00eb paditur t\u00eb seksualitetit tuaj. Shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz, q\u00eb jan\u00eb heteroseksual\u00eb ose t\u00eb drejt\u00eb, kan\u00eb provuar fantazi p\u00ebr t\u00eb pasur marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale me gjinin\u00eb? e tyre dhe disa prej tyre, kan\u00eb kryer marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale me t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin gjini, ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht, n\u00eb adoleshenc\u00eb. Por k\u00ebta kurr\u00eb nuk kan\u00eb menduar se jan\u00eb gay ose lesbiane.? Ndryshimi me ty q\u00ebndron nw faktin q\u00eb ti mendon se je lesbiane.<br \/>\nN\u00eb qoft\u00eb se mendon q\u00eb dashnori nuk do t\u2019i mir\u00ebkuptoj\u00eb ndjenjat e tua lesbiane, ose nuk mund t\u2019u ndihmoj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019i plot\u00ebsuar fantazit\u00eb dhe marr\u00ebdh\u00ebniet e tua seksuale, ti do t\u00eb b\u00ebje mir\u00eb t\u2019i eksploroje me kujdes ndjenjat e tua dhe t\u00eb bisedoje me ndonj\u00eb seksolog ose psikolog.<br \/>\nUn\u00eb t\u00eb rekomandoj ta b\u00ebsh k\u00ebt\u00eb p\u00ebrpara se t\u00eb veprosh sipas fantazive t\u00eb tua lesbiane. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebnyra e vetme, q\u00eb t\u00eb evitosh mund\u00ebsin\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb di\u00e7ka q\u00eb do ta vinte n\u00eb rrezik? marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien tuaj, ose q\u00eb t\u00eb mos pendohesh m\u00eb von\u00eb p\u00ebr sjelljen t\u00ebnde.<br \/>\nKa dhe nj\u00eb mund\u00ebsi tjet\u00ebr: Ty dhe dashnori, t\u00eb dy,? t\u00eb bini dakord q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebni t\u00eb dy marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale me njer\u00ebz t\u00eb tjer\u00eb. T\u00eb dy t\u00eb angazhoheni, secili nw hesap t\u00eb vet, n\u00eb disa eksperimentime seksuale, pa e konsideruar k\u00ebt\u00eb se po \u201ctradhtoni \u201d njeri-tjetrin.<br \/>\nNw qoft\u00eb se nuk doni t\u00eb rrezikoni t\u00eb humbisni dashnorin q\u00eb keni tani, un\u00eb do t\u00eb k\u00ebshilloja t\u2019i p\u00ebrmbash ndjenjat homoseksuale dhe t\u00eb mos b\u00ebsh seks homoseksual, deri sa dashnori yt t\u00eb gjej\u00eb nj\u00eb dashnore tjet\u00ebr, ose deri sa ai ta pranoj\u00eb iden\u00eb q\u00eb ti t\u00eb b\u00ebsh seks me dik\u00eb tjet\u00ebr, burr\u00eb ose grua.<br \/>\nN\u00eb qoft\u00eb se marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnia seksuale me dik\u00eb tjet\u00ebr, do t\u00eb konsiderohet prej tij si nj\u00eb veprim tradhtie, varet nga ai se si do t\u00eb ndjehet lidhur me ket\u00eb sjelljen t\u00ebnde. Un\u00eb mendoj se shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz, do t\u00eb ndjeheshin t\u00eb tradhtuar, kur personi q\u00eb ata e duan b\u00ebn seks, pa dijenin\u00eb e tij, me dik\u00eb tjet\u00ebr, burr\u00eb apo grua qoft\u00eb. Pyet veten t\u00ebnde. Si do t\u00eb ndjeheshe ti, po qe se situata do t\u00eb ishte e kund\u00ebrt, dometh\u00ebn\u00eb ai t\u00eb k\u00ebrkonte t\u00eb b\u00ebnte seks me nj\u00eb djal\u00eb.<br \/>\nKa dhe nj\u00eb fakt tjet\u00ebr q\u00eb duhet pasur parasysh. Njer\u00ebzit falin m\u00eb leht\u00eb tradhtin\u00eb me marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie heteroseksuale, se sa tradhtin\u00eb me nj\u00eb partner t\u00eb t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtit seks.<br \/>\nNd\u00ebrkaq, ato \u00e7ifte q\u00eb kan\u00eb marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale \u201ct\u00eb hapura\u201d dhe kan\u00eb r\u00ebn\u00eb dakord q\u00eb secili partner t\u00eb b\u00ebj\u00eb seks me t\u00eb tjer\u00eb, mund t\u00eb ken\u00eb opinione t\u00eb ndryshme lidhur me raste si ky i juaji.? Disa \u00e7ifte, madje, ftojn\u00eb persona ose \u00e7ifte t\u00eb tjer\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebjn\u00eb seks bashk\u00ebrisht me ta. Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb k\u00ebto marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie jan\u00eb reciproke dhe t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjith\u00eb pjes\u00ebmarr\u00ebsit. Por, n\u00eb qoft\u00eb se nj\u00ebri, ose m\u00eb shum\u00eb individ\u00eb, kuptojn\u00eb se k\u00ebto jan\u00eb sjellje mashtruese, q\u00eb b\u00ebhen, vet\u00ebm, p\u00ebr t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqur partnerin ose partneren dhe ata ndjehen t\u00eb? manipuluar n\u00eb seks, konsekuencat e k\u00ebtyre sjelljeve, shpesh, jan\u00eb t\u00eb dhimbshme p\u00ebr t\u00eb dy personat? dhe p\u00ebr marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnien e tyre.<br \/>\nShpresoj t\u00eb t\u00eb kem ndihmuar sado pak, n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rast, q\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb aq i thjesht\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u2019u zgjidhur.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Pyetje: Jam nj\u00eb grua tridhjet\u00eb vje\u00e7e dhe kam nj\u00eb pyetje p\u00ebr seksualitetin tim. Deri tani kam pasur marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale vet\u00ebm me meshkuj, por koh\u00ebt? e fundit kam filluar t\u00eb fantazoj p\u00ebr marr\u00ebdh\u00ebnie seksuale me gra. Aktualisht kam nj\u00eb djal\u00eb q\u00eb e dua shum\u00eb, por fatkeq\u00ebsisht, ai nuk do t\u2019i kuptoj\u00eb ndjenjat e mia. A \u00ebsht\u00eb [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[45,19],"tags":[112],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/seksologu.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/95"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/seksologu.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/seksologu.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/seksologu.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/seksologu.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=95"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/seksologu.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/95\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/seksologu.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=95"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/seksologu.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=95"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/seksologu.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=95"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}